Aries with Libra

Start with the two perspectives

From the Aries side, the profile emphasizes initiative, courage and directness. The Libra profile adds diplomacy, proportion and an interest in other viewpoints. Start by asking where those descriptions match the way each person actually likes to communicate and make plans.

Elements and everyday connection

Aries belongs to Fire, associated with initiative and enthusiasm. Libra belongs to Air, associated with ideas and conversation. Compare what each person means by support. One may want a conversation while the other starts making a plan.

Pace and shared plans

The cardinal mode of Aries emphasizes beginning a task and setting a direction. The cardinal mode of Libra emphasizes beginning a task and setting a direction. Decide how you will start, maintain and revise a shared plan.

A conversation to try

On the Aries side, notice rushing a decision or turning every disagreement into a contest. On the Libra side, notice delaying a decision to avoid disappointing anyone. Discuss one recent example without assigning the other person a motive.

Ask what would make the next conversation easier. Use a specific request and give the other person time to answer.