Aries with Aquarius

Start with the two perspectives

From the Aries side, the profile emphasizes initiative, courage and directness. The Aquarius profile adds independent thought, invention and concern for the wider group. Start by asking where those descriptions match the way each person actually likes to communicate and make plans.

Elements and everyday connection

Aries belongs to Fire, associated with initiative and enthusiasm. Aquarius belongs to Air, associated with ideas and conversation. Compare what each person means by support. One may want a conversation while the other starts making a plan.

Pace and shared plans

The cardinal mode of Aries emphasizes beginning a task and setting a direction. The fixed mode of Aquarius emphasizes sustaining an effort and protecting continuity. Decide how you will start, maintain and revise a shared plan.

A conversation to try

On the Aries side, notice rushing a decision or turning every disagreement into a contest. On the Aquarius side, notice staying with an abstract principle when someone needs a personal response. Discuss one recent example without assigning the other person a motive.

Ask what would make the next conversation easier. Use a specific request and give the other person time to answer.